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September got me feelin' all kinds of ways

Hello, September! Welcoming Fall, Fun, and Feelings šŸŒ»šŸ

Can you believe it's already September? 

We have a wild and crazy September here at the MacLean house!  For me, itā€™s not just the start of fall but also the month I turn 50! (Cue the confetti! šŸŽ‰) Iā€™m so excited about all the fun things we have plannedā€”pumpkin patches, cozy sweater weather, and warm apple cider. It's that magical time of year when the air gets crisper, and the leaves start to turn those beautiful shades of red and gold. šŸ‚

We took an adventure to Branson last weekend! That was so much fun! With my 50th upon me later this month, my kiddos surprised me by taking us all to one of our favorite locations! We have not been to Branson as a family for way too long!  We had so much fun! 

Back home for now and this next week we will head to California. Iā€™d be lying if I didnā€™t say this September also feels a little bittersweet. Weā€™re still processing the loss of my father-in-law, and itā€™s a reminder that life has this way of giving us the happy and the heavy all at once. Itā€™s a lot to hold sometimes, isn't it? On one hand, thereā€™s the joy of upcoming birthday celebrations, and on the other, thereā€™s the weight of grief. We will be heading out there to of course pay our respects and love on my sweet mother-in-law. They were married for, I believe, 30 years. I can't even imagine how she is feeling with all of this! We will also take in a few sights. I have always wanted to see a California vineyard! Even before I really liked wine! I have no idea what the intrigue is, really?? Hmmm that's maybe a spot for reflection! Anyway. We will go to a vineyard, see the Seqouia's. I have always wanted to see the big ol trees too! Todd says that I have no idea what I'm in for! I guess our trees in MO our puny! HA! 

Ya know what's really weird? At this age, I thought I would feel like a grown up! HA! What does a grown up feel like? I have no idea, but I sure don't feel like one! I mean, my kids are grown for goodness sake! You'd think that would maybe be the trigger? Nope. They still seem so little in my head until we meet up and they all tower over me! 

We have new groups starting at church, Oliver (the schnauzer) turns 2, and fall is upon us! I'm probably forgetting something! Such a busy month!

So, what do we do when weā€™re juggling all the emotions? How do we balance excitement for what's ahead and honor the hard stuff life brings? Iā€™m no stranger to the "too much on my plate" feeling, and here are a few things Iā€™m reminding myself as we move into this new season:

1. Itā€™s OK to Feel All the Feelings Sometimes we think we need to ā€œpick a laneā€ emotionallyā€”like we canā€™t be happy because weā€™re sad, or vice versa. But guess what? You can feel it all at once. Joy and sadness can coexist, and itā€™s perfectly normal to experience both in the same breath. Let yourself have those moments where you laugh and cryā€”sometimes even at the same time! šŸ’•

2. Prioritize Whatā€™s Truly Important With fall comes busy schedules, especially with the holidays right around the corner. Itā€™s easy to get swept up in all the to-dos, but remember, not everything has to be done right now. Ask yourself what really matters. Whether itā€™s time with family, a fun fall activity, or just a quiet moment for yourself, give yourself permission to prioritize what feeds your soul.

3. Lean on Your Tribe We all need a little help now and then. Donā€™t hesitate to lean on your support systemā€”whether itā€™s your family, friends, or even a virtual hug from a community that understands. Sometimes, just knowing youā€™re not carrying everything alone makes all the difference. šŸ¤—

4. Breathe and Be Present When things feel like theyā€™re moving too fast (or too much is happening at once), taking a moment to just breathe can ground you. Let yourself enjoy the little momentsā€”whether it's watching the leaves fall, feeling the cool breeze on your face, or sipping that first PSL of the season. šŸ§”

This September, Iā€™m stepping into my 50s with a heart full of gratitudeā€”for the good times ahead, the love around me, and even the lessons in loss. So hereā€™s to welcoming all the feelings, embracing the new season, and knowing that no matter whatā€™s on your plate, you can handle it with grace.

How are you feeling about the start of fall? Letā€™s share the journey together!

With love and light, always in your corner and rooting for you~
Your Bestie!Carri The Bubbly Boss Babe


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