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It’s Never Too Late, and You’re Never Too Old to Shine Bright!

  Hey gorgeous! Welcome back! I have been having some conversations with several beautiful friends. We're all a little more seasoned in life and the common thread that has come up, is that they're feeling they're "too old" for something. Whether it's starting that new project, that business they've been dreaming of, that new relationship and more.  This really breaks my heart!!! So we had some really lovely conversations about this, but then something else hit me. If they're feeling this way, they're probably not the only ones.  I also experienced the most amazing graduate this past weekend! Well, besides my sweet step-daughter! Let me share a story that warmed my heart this weekend. My step-daughter graduated with her degree, and I couldn’t have been prouder. But as the names were called, and caps flew high in celebration, one graduate stood out among the sea of fresh-faced achievers. His name was Carl, a gentleman with a full head of grey hair an...
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September got me feelin' all kinds of ways

Hello, September! Welcoming Fall, Fun, and Feelings 🌻🍁

Can you believe it's already September? 

We have a wild and crazy September here at the MacLean house!  For me, it’s not just the start of fall but also the month I turn 50! (Cue the confetti! 🎉) I’m so excited about all the fun things we have planned—pumpkin patches, cozy sweater weather, and warm apple cider. It's that magical time of year when the air gets crisper, and the leaves start to turn those beautiful shades of red and gold. 🍂

We took an adventure to Branson last weekend! That was so much fun! With my 50th upon me later this month, my kiddos surprised me by taking us all to one of our favorite locations! We have not been to Branson as a family for way too long!  We had so much fun! 

Back home for now and this next week we will head to California. I’d be lying if I didn’t say this September also feels a little bittersweet. We’re still processing the loss of my father-in-law, and it’s a reminder that life has this way of giving us the happy and the heavy all at once. It’s a lot to hold sometimes, isn't it? On one hand, there’s the joy of upcoming birthday celebrations, and on the other, there’s the weight of grief. We will be heading out there to of course pay our respects and love on my sweet mother-in-law. They were married for, I believe, 30 years. I can't even imagine how she is feeling with all of this! We will also take in a few sights. I have always wanted to see a California vineyard! Even before I really liked wine! I have no idea what the intrigue is, really?? Hmmm that's maybe a spot for reflection! Anyway. We will go to a vineyard, see the Seqouia's. I have always wanted to see the big ol trees too! Todd says that I have no idea what I'm in for! I guess our trees in MO our puny! HA! 

Ya know what's really weird? At this age, I thought I would feel like a grown up! HA! What does a grown up feel like? I have no idea, but I sure don't feel like one! I mean, my kids are grown for goodness sake! You'd think that would maybe be the trigger? Nope. They still seem so little in my head until we meet up and they all tower over me! 

We have new groups starting at church, Oliver (the schnauzer) turns 2, and fall is upon us! I'm probably forgetting something! Such a busy month!

So, what do we do when we’re juggling all the emotions? How do we balance excitement for what's ahead and honor the hard stuff life brings? I’m no stranger to the "too much on my plate" feeling, and here are a few things I’m reminding myself as we move into this new season:

1. It’s OK to Feel All the Feelings Sometimes we think we need to “pick a lane” emotionally—like we can’t be happy because we’re sad, or vice versa. But guess what? You can feel it all at once. Joy and sadness can coexist, and it’s perfectly normal to experience both in the same breath. Let yourself have those moments where you laugh and cry—sometimes even at the same time! 💕

2. Prioritize What’s Truly Important With fall comes busy schedules, especially with the holidays right around the corner. It’s easy to get swept up in all the to-dos, but remember, not everything has to be done right now. Ask yourself what really matters. Whether it’s time with family, a fun fall activity, or just a quiet moment for yourself, give yourself permission to prioritize what feeds your soul.

3. Lean on Your Tribe We all need a little help now and then. Don’t hesitate to lean on your support system—whether it’s your family, friends, or even a virtual hug from a community that understands. Sometimes, just knowing you’re not carrying everything alone makes all the difference. 🤗

4. Breathe and Be Present When things feel like they’re moving too fast (or too much is happening at once), taking a moment to just breathe can ground you. Let yourself enjoy the little moments—whether it's watching the leaves fall, feeling the cool breeze on your face, or sipping that first PSL of the season. 🧡

This September, I’m stepping into my 50s with a heart full of gratitude—for the good times ahead, the love around me, and even the lessons in loss. So here’s to welcoming all the feelings, embracing the new season, and knowing that no matter what’s on your plate, you can handle it with grace.

How are you feeling about the start of fall? Let’s share the journey together!

With love and light, always in your corner and rooting for you~
Your Bestie!Carri The Bubbly Boss Babe


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