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Busy Mamas~This is for you!


Hey Besties! Welcome to another blog~How are you? No, really. How are you?

It's not fall yet, but back to school does mark the unofficial end of summer. Some of you really never get off schedules during the summer and so you slide into back to school with ease. You, my friends, are those I look up to! You are a Goddess of schedules and routines and I envy you. The others of us? Well, we race around like a wild animal and the house and kids are all in chaos. Not a very productive way to hit back to school, but, that was my norm for a long time. I would just get so lax with the kiddos during summer, kind of giving us all a break, but goodness that never went well when it came time for all things back to school. 

Even you Goddesses can have a hard time, if you're not taking care of you as well. Even the best, most organized mamas can feel crazed on the inside, even if you don't look it on the outside, you gorgeous little goddess you! 

Getting back into the school routine can be a whirlwind, especially for busy moms who juggle multiple responsibilities. As summer fades and the back-to-school rush begins, it's easy to feel overwhelmed. Early mornings, packing lunches, homework sessions, and after-school activities can make it feel like you’re always on the go. Amidst all the chaos, it's essential to take a step back and remember the importance of self-care.

The Stress of Transitioning Back to School

For many families, the back-to-school season is a time of change. After a laid-back summer, shifting back into a strict routine can be stressful for everyone, especially moms. Between getting the kids out the door on time and managing your own schedule, it’s easy to lose sight of your own well-being. The stress can build up quickly, leading to burnout if you don’t take intentional steps to care for yourself.

The Pressure to Be “On” All the Time

Moms often feel the need to be superhuman—balancing everything from their kids’ school activities to household chores and possibly work demands. This pressure to have it all together can lead to guilt and anxiety when things don’t go perfectly. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to do it all, and you don’t have to do it alone.

The Importance of Self-Care

Self-care isn’t just about bubble baths and spa days (though those are great, too). It’s about carving out moments in your day for yourself—whether that’s a quiet cup of coffee in the morning, a quick walk in the evening, or a few minutes of mindfulness when the house is finally quiet. When you take care of yourself, you’re better equipped to handle the demands of your family and day-to-day life.

Practical Self-Care Tips for Busy Moms

  1. Set Boundaries: It’s okay to say no to extra activities or favors that add more stress to your life. Protect your time and energy.

  2. Plan Ahead: Meal prepping, organizing school supplies, and setting up routines can reduce the daily hustle and give you some breathing room.

  3. Delegate Tasks: Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Whether it’s getting your partner involved, assigning chores to the kids, or hiring help when possible, sharing the load can make a huge difference.

  4. Take Mini Breaks: Even five minutes of deep breathing, stretching, or stepping outside can reset your mind and help you recharge.

  5. Prioritize Sleep: Lack of sleep can heighten stress and reduce your ability to cope. Make sure you’re getting enough rest, even if it means letting go of some evening chores.

Remember: You’re Worth It

It’s easy to put your needs on the back burner when everyone is depending on you. But you can’t pour from an empty cup. Prioritizing self-care isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. When you take care of yourself, you’re in a better position to be the calm, patient, and present mom your family needs.

This back-to-school season, embrace the routine, but don’t forget to check in with yourself. By doing so, you’ll find that you can navigate the hectic days with more ease, resilience, and yes—maybe even a little more joy.

In your corner and rooting for you~
Your Bestie, 
Carri 


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