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🎄 The Sparkle and Sanity Guide: Staying Centered and Joyful During the Holidays! 🎄

Ok, I know that it is just the end of October, but you know that the holidays are fast approaching! It was laid on my heart to put this out now, hoping that you will save it for when you're in the depths of all things sleigh bells, snowy sidewalks and stressful evenings. I know all too well that you can get quickly caught in the middle of all the things and really feel like you're going to loose your shit. 

Hang in there Sis! I got you! 

Ah, the holiday season! The twinkling lights, the festive tunes, and yes—the hustle and bustle that seems to sneak up on us every year. With a sprinkle of planning and a dash of sparkle, you can savor the season without getting swept away in the holiday frenzy! Here are my top tips for keeping sane, staying focused, and sprinkling self-care into even the busiest days.

1. ✨ Let Go of the “Perfect Holiday” Pressure

Let's start with a little reality check: there’s no such thing as a “perfect” holiday. Releasing that expectation opens space for real joy and meaningful moments. Try this:

  • Mindset Flip: When you catch yourself feeling like things "have to be perfect," take a deep breath and remind yourself it’s the memories that count, not the picture-perfect moment.
  • Find Gratitude: Keep a tiny journal or make a mental note of something that brings you joy each day—glittering snow, cozy blankets, a laugh with family.

2. 🎁 Prioritize Self-Care (And Add a Dash of Sparkle!)

The holiday season is magical, but if we don’t take care of ourselves, it can turn into a one-way ticket to Burnout City. Put yourself at the top of your holiday gift list with these ideas:

  • Set “Me Time” Blocks: Whether it’s a bubble bath, journaling with your favorite hot cocoa, or a quick walk to enjoy the fresh air, block off mini self-care moments throughout the week.
  • Holiday Glam Moments: Use self-care as an excuse to get festive! A face mask with a holiday playlist, sparkly nails, or even a fun holiday-themed workout can keep you in the spirit without the stress.

3. 🎄 Keep Communication Clear with Family

Holiday gatherings are a gift but can also be a lot. To keep the peace and your cool, try these tricks:

  • Set Boundaries Gently: If family time gets too intense, have a pre-set “getaway” plan. Maybe that’s a quick walk or a few deep breaths outside.
  • Give the Gift of Grace: Family dynamics can get tricky, but this season, let’s give grace as much as we can. Understanding and patience are so 2024!

4. 🛍️ Plan (And Stick to!) Your Budget

The sparkles, the gifts, the tempting holiday deals—it’s all a lot! Financial stress is one of the sneakiest stressors of the season. Here’s how to keep it in check:

  • Create a “Holiday Budget” Envelope: Outline what you’re willing to spend, then stick to it with a little extra for the unexpected.
  • DIY Magic: When in doubt, handmade gifts or heartfelt gestures go a long way. Maybe it’s baking your favorite cookies or crafting something meaningful!

5. ✨ Breathe, Move, and Laugh Often

This season, make room for joy—literally! Set aside time to breathe, move your body, and laugh. Science proves that a good laugh can be the best stress reliever, so have fun and let loose!

  • Mini Dance Parties: When you need a break, put on your favorite holiday song and let yourself dance like nobody’s watching.
  • A Little Fresh Air: Whether it’s a quick stroll or a pause to enjoy the crisp winter air, fresh air is nature’s reset button.

🎅 In Closing…

As you decorate, shop, wrap, and celebrate, remember to sprinkle a little extra magic on yourself. The holiday season is here to be enjoyed, so gift yourself the joy of a more relaxed, self-cared-for you! ✨

Wishing you all a sparkly, sane, and oh-so-special holiday season!

In your corner and rooting for you, your bestie~
Carri 

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